Today I rode my Sunny to Broadway and back. It was my maiden voyage in the deep dark waters of traffic and crowds and I have my daughter Shloka to thank for it. She was my inspiration and cheerleader rolled into one major motivating force, a force to be reckoned with. I have been riding my sunny zip scooty in and around our colony for nearly 3 years now, but didn’t have the courage to cross the Thevara bridge and go into town.
Today, I had to go to Broadway market to make a purchase and as usual I decided to go by an auto rickshaw. But she put her foot down and goaded me into taking the sunny to the market. I agreed albeit reluctantly. The moment I reached the bridge I started thinking, was I making a mistake? An astrologer has predicted a major road accident in my future; I have been warned to be very careful. All these thoughts crossed my mind and I almost turned back. Turning back was an option open to me according to Shloka. She said "The moment you feel you cannot go any further we’ll turn back." Since there was a backup plan, I didn’t panic. Being a true Capricorn I plodded along, slowly but sure-footedly and painstakingly towards my destination.
I had been thinking about going to town on my own riding my sunny but had always backed out at the last minute. I needed that extra push, that nudge in the right direction, the right kind of encouragement. I think everybody needs a Shloka in their lives to make their lives richer, fuller and better. I am grateful to her for being my muse/guide. ‘Thinking about taking that first step is always the best thing to do. Once you take that first step, there’s no stopping you’ I have become a firm believer of this philosophy & I endorse it.
My first words to my darling daughter on our return home were "Thank you for giving me wings. Now I’m free to go anywhere." I was afraid to take that first step but courage has evicted fear out of my life. Life is beautiful and precious. Why should we waste even a second thinking about what will happen in the next six months or one year? We lose precious moments worrying about a time that might or might not come.
23 March 2008, 9:24 PM
Archana wrote:
Congratulations. I guess as children grow older we too can and must learn and be inspired by them. They have less fears of downsides of a particular activity which often prevents us from taking the first step. Good show. Reply to this
24 March 2008, 5:57 PM
Neha Gupta wrote:
Sounds like my own story! I'm just too scared of driving to a far-off place. Yes, all it requires is a little self-confidence. Nice blog! Reply to this
26 March 2008, 5:43 PM
sulekha wrote:
I think if we share our thoughts and ideas, we can do anything.Nothing is impossible.Thanks for your comment. Reply to this
27 March 2008, 7:41 PM
Sunita wrote:
I felt a sense of deja vu when I read your well written blog. Even I used to find excuses to avoid driving through Thevera road let alone Broadway. We always have to thank that particluar event (in your case your daughter's encouragement) that eggs us on to try what we can easily do but just don't have the self confidence to try. So often we preach to our children that anything is possible if they put their minds to it. If only we had the foresight to heed our own advice. Reply to this
Well said.
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Thanks a lot.
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"Shloka" - what a nice name.. god bless you two... Happy Holi dear.
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Thank you and best wishes to you too.
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Congratulations. I guess as children grow older we too can and must learn and be inspired by them. They have less fears of downsides of a particular activity which often prevents us from taking the first step.
Good show.
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Thanks.This is my first blog on4indianwoman and your compliments have made my day.
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Sounds like my own story! I'm just too scared of driving to a far-off place. Yes, all it requires is a little self-confidence. Nice blog!
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I think if we share our thoughts and ideas, we can do anything.Nothing is impossible.Thanks for your comment.
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Sulekha,
Brave you! I dont even dare to walk on those roads, the traffic scares me, i hail an auto even from boat jetty to Broadway shops...
Very well expressed!
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Thanks a ton and God bless.
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I felt a sense of deja vu when I read your well written blog. Even I used to find excuses to avoid driving through Thevera road let alone Broadway. We always have to thank that particluar event (in your case your daughter's encouragement) that eggs us on to try what we can easily do but just don't have the self confidence to try. So often we preach to our children that anything is possible if they put their minds to it. If only we had the foresight to heed our own advice.
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